a mental model for making decisions and taking actions that is relevant for many things is to find distinguish and separate [what shapes you] [what accelerates you] a lot of discussions, even ones that seemingly say kinda true things, are very surface level and muddy the two

I suppose a lot of people do this instinctively and then end up giving advice that seems good but is ultimately bad because it takes this for granted

it’s pretty easy to mimic quality in execution for something and it not really be the same because it’s not really calibrated to the underlying distinctions intentionality starts with understanding form in what shapes something vs what accelerates something