these are all so boring for the first date with my now wife I flew 10000 miles to meet her and spent two weeks together
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signüllJan 14, 06:00
was talking to my buddy about how dinner first dates are now definitively a terrible idea & entirely outdated. culture has moved on. when you meet anyone new you should optimize for: - short, cheap, exit friendly (coffee, walk, drink). - movement > sitting. - contextual novelty (bookstore, gallery, flea, dumb errand). - easy escalation path if it’s clicking. this is the new modernity.
- long, expensive, no exit worked fine
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