Matt Walsh can't understand and thus hates this "lesbian agitator" because -- unlike her -- he has never risked anything for a cause, and thus has to malign anyone who does, because they're a constant reminder of what he isn't and never will be. Only by demeaning people willing to take risks for their beliefs can he escape that loud voice inside his head incessantly telling him -- correctly -- that he's a cowardly zero who can never find the internal courage to exhibit the virtues of bravery and strength he constantly extols. That's also why he's obsessed with building a career screaming about how manly he is and strutting around glorifying wars fought by men and women who -- unlike him -- are capable of finding bravery in themselves. He vicariously leeches off of their courage because he knows he has none inside of himself. (It's similar to the huge numbers of people who publicly and vocally obsess about policing the private lives of other adults, only to be exposed for engaging in behavior identical or far worse than that which they flamboyantly condemn). These are the weak and cowardly men who are most insecure about their masculinity, about their character, about their fear of sacrificing in pursuit of some cause or values greater than themselves. Actually brave people don't strut around constantly yelling about how strong and manly and virtuous they are. It's weak men who have to resort to LARPing, to wearing campy hyper-masculine costumes, to constantly touting their own strength even though they can't point to anything they have ever done that reflects any of those attributes they loudly claim for themselves. And most of all, they need to demean others who do exhibit those attributes in a desperate hope to escape the shame that those people engender within them.