just to be clear, i don’t think traveling is bad at all. i just care way less about where i am than who i’m with. to me the best trips are about shared memories, not scenery. once i spent seven hours in some random cafe in the middle of nowhere norway, just talking & playing monopoly with someone that i loved. i’ll never forget it. most ppl get this backwards. they chase locations instead of connection. that’s just not my cup of tea.