After reading many outrageous comments, the summary is that East Asians lead a life full of trauma, constantly seeking various forms of validation. As children, they need to excel in their studies to receive praise from their parents, which they equate with being loved. As they grow up, they must earn money and have good jobs to gain societal recognition, which they also equate with being loved. Now, it has turned into needing to find someone willing to marry them to be considered excellent, not a "defective product." I did mention many external conditions in my original text, which are objective. These are not reasons for whether they can enter a relationship, but not entering a relationship does not mean they are not excellent or that they are not complete individuals. The need to be chosen to prove oneself and to find a position they like—this mindset is, in itself, a kind of tragedy.