I also want to spend hundreds of thousands to marry a wife. Have her give birth to a few kids, wash clothes, cook meals, and clean the house every day; this is much cheaper than hiring a free nanny. I wouldn't mind giving her a few thousand yuan for living expenses every month to take care of household costs. I would occasionally buy her a gift to make her happy and provide her with some emotional value. If she can work and earn money herself, that would be even better, and I could give her less money.