The most common lie in the family group is that everyone is voluntary. Someone posts: To celebrate grandpa's birthday, everyone voluntarily contributes, no comparisons. A row of responses below: Received, okay. The next day, a spreadsheet is shared in the group: voluntary details, with each person's name followed by an amount. One cousin contributed a little less. Immediately, he was @: This amount isn't very auspicious, let's make it a nicer number. The cousin was silent for a few minutes but still added the money. Not because of auspiciousness, but because he saw that the far-right column said 'Paid / Not Paid' Once the money was added, the spreadsheet changed immediately: ✅ Paid.🤡