As someone who has quickly experienced the rise -- fall -- rise -- fall -- and now a low profile, I have a bit of immature advice to share as the New Year approaches. If you care a lot about the opinions of relatives and friends around you, then I want to tell you: no one will remember your fall when you are at your peak. Similarly, no one will remember your peak when you are at your lowest. So if you care a lot, then avoid contact during your low times, and talk again when you are back on top.