Try to research yourself as much as possible, understand what suits you, what to eat, what hobbies you have, what your personality is like, and how your health is. Zhuangzi said: "I live because the universe lives, and I perish because all things perish." In this world, there is actually only you. This is probably some way of seeking inward; pleasing yourself is the ultimate victory. The process from nothing to something is good as long as you like it. Every person may be like a well, nurturing a frog inside. Don't waste time trying to change the stubborn type; just manage it well in a way that it likes. Liking requires guidance from others, and it lacks independent thinking.