There are guys who look at passive financial security and say "sweet, now I don't have to do anything" and guys who look at it and say "sweet, this frees me up to do something important" Women prefer one of those attitudes over the other

If I had total financial security tomorrow, I probably wouldn't even quit my job. I like my job and I like the people I work with and it would be gross to leave them in the lurch. But I would look into taking a sabbatical and then go into teaching math or computer science