20 social rules that will save you ten years of detours 1. First: Leave work 5 minutes late; remember, this shows depth. 2. Second: When alone with your boss, listen more and speak less; this is being cautious. 3. Third: When asking someone for a favor, be generous with gifts; this is being willing to invest. 4. Fourth: No matter how others invite you, do not attend impromptu dinners; this is self-awareness. 5. Fifth: Never share your personal family matters with colleagues; this is knowing your boundaries. 6. Sixth: Do not offer unsolicited advice on matters others haven't asked you about; this is being low-key. 7. Seventh: Do not oppose your boss in public; this is showing respect. 8. Eighth: If you borrow money from someone, make sure to pay it back in advance, even if it's just a day early; this is integrity. 9. Ninth: Do not easily reveal your innermost thoughts; this is being reserved. 10. Tenth: Never let others do things for you for free; this is being worldly-wise. 11. Engage in side hustles. Try to earn more money; today's society is very realistic, and without money, it's hard to get by. If you only know how to work and don't study how to make money, which rich person lives off their salary? You can try doing some side work. 12. A man's purpose in approaching a woman is usually for two things: either for her youth and beauty or for her body. If you offer neither, they don't need a burden; similarly, a woman's purpose in approaching a man is also for two things: one is emotional support, and the other is financial assistance. If you can't provide either, then she doesn't need an ancestor. 13. When everything is going smoothly for you, do not get complacent, as this is exhausting your good fortune; when you face repeated setbacks, do not blame the heavens or others, as this can eliminate your past misdeeds. Viewing success and failure with a different mindset will make life more exciting! 14. When you are very poor, face is not the first thing you should consider. Being bound by face, thinking you are noble while others are intoxicated, indicates that your character is still lacking and needs improvement. ...