The dirty and realistic unspoken rules of relationships between men and women! 1. The feelings that make you quickly lose your head often die the fastest! Sweet talk and crazy pursuit may just be short-term tricks; a truly good relationship requires time to settle. 2. Marriage is a transaction; don’t talk about "unconditional"! Men look at women's youth and reproductive value, while women look at men's economic and social value. They may not say it, but they are both calculating in their hearts. 3. The harm between lower-class men and women is the most severe! Men driven mad by bride price curse women for being materialistic, while women bullied by their in-laws urge their friends to get married; the more miserable one wants to drag others down with them. 4. The power games in relationships! Whoever earns more has the louder voice; whoever depends on whom must endure. Saying "I support you" implies "you have to listen to me". 5. Is marriage a scam? Those who urge you to get married will later advise you to "endure it for the sake of the children"; those who create dreams for you often won’t let you wake up. 6. Parents' attitudes are the most realistic! The bride's parents look at how much the groom has now, while the groom's parents look at how many children the bride can have in the future. 7. The truth about marriage! In youth, it’s a competition of who is more popular; in middle age, it’s about who can handle things better; in old age, it’s about who lives longer. Love? It’s just a condiment for life. 8. Love at first sight is mostly lust; love that grows over time is just weighing pros and cons! True love exists, but the premise is that you must first have value. 9. Men fear women’s nagging the most, while women fear men’s silence! One wants to escape, the other wants to chase, and in the end, both suffer. 10. When a woman says "I don’t care about money," she often cares the most! Those who truly don’t care wouldn’t even mention it. 11. The person who makes you happy during dating may not even want to talk after marriage! Passion fades, habits change, only interests bind the longest. 12. The women that men love the most are always those who are "unattainable" and "already lost"! 13. Two things women tend to overestimate: men’s loyalty and their own charm! Don’t be too confident; time will slap you in the face. 14. Women who ask for a bride price before marriage often have a harder time after! Because in-laws think, "A bought bride, why shouldn’t she work?" ...