The whole red flag discourse online mostly seems to come from women. You'll read the comments and it's often something like, "Why are you with this guy? or Girl, that’s a red flag, you need to leave him." You seldom see the equivalent from men. You rarely seen male commenters respond to a male influencer—like he posts a photo with his girlfriend—and the guys jump in saying, "Dude, that’s a red flag. She said this, she did that, you need to get away from her, run as fast as you can." Once in a while you’ll see it, but not to the same extent as with female influencers and their female followers. Same thing in real life. I was reading that Vogue article and thinking about anecdotal stuff. I have female friends who start dating a new guy and immediately their friends start questioning it—What does he do again? Who are his friends? I’m not sure about this. It’s like they’re looking for reasons to introduce doubt. But when a guy says, “I’m dating this new girl,” his friends don’t usually respond by breaking her down and identifying all her flaws.