I hear from many young men that they find it difficult to meet young women in a public setting. In other words, the online culture has destroyed the ability to spontaneously meet strangers. As such, I thought I would share a few words that I used in my youth to meet someone that I found compelling. I would say: “Estoy intentando aprender español y me preguntaba si podrías enseñarme” before engaging further in a conversation. I only rarely have received a restraining order It inevitably enabled the opportunity for a further conversation. I met a lot of bad latinas this way. I think the combination of proper grammar and politeness was the key to its effectiveness. You might give it a try. And yes, I think it should also work for women seeking men as well as same sex interactions (especially at power lifting gyms) Just two cents from a chronically online incel concerned about our next generation’s happiness and population replacement rates.