i was once married and the guy changed dramatically after the wedding. cancelled our honeymoon to focus on work, became extremely short tempered with me, stopped helping with anything around the house. when i finally left him, he said with bewilderment “i thought once we were married you’d never leave, no matter what i did.” there’s a type of guy who thinks a wife is someone who exists to serve him and there’s a type of guy who genuinely wants nothing more than to make his wife happy. if you’re really honest with yourself you know which one you’re dating, and if it’s not the latter you should run.