All the time you spend complaining about how unfair things are comes at the expense of moving forward. The lesson: "After the bank auctioned our assets and moved out, all six of us parked our cars at the front of the lot, so the place wouldn't look so empty. Certainly these were depressing times, but Joe and I spent almost no time moaning about what happened. Both of us tend to be consistently optimistic. I truly believe that every day brings opportunity, even the bad days."