Single men should approach women more. I surveyed >13,000 single women in the U.S. and U.K. in January 2024 and exactly 95% said they wished they were approached by men in-person more often. Whenever I share this statistic, someone will complain “ok, but women only want to be approached by men they’re attracted to…” This is not wrong, and you should hit the gym, wear clothes that fit, and practice good hygiene accordingly 😊

One of my favorite matchmaking wins this year: 35-year-old client, NYC, 5’11, real estate finance, Christian, good energy. His first two matches are fine, but don’t go anywhere. Third match is 29 y/o, gorgeous, brunette, works in health tech, Christian, loves to ski. Perfect fit for him. Their date is great, but he’s not 100% sure she’s his person yet. We set him up with a fourth match he’s intrigued by. The date is good, and… He wants to be exclusive with match #3 😌 This is a common pattern. Many singles need to meet +1 person before they realize they’ve already found their person. Now for the entertaining part. His girlfriend DM’ed me asking if I would gift his unused match to one of his single friends 😅

Matchmaking inquiry from an aspiring American this morning. I’m an immigration strategy now? 😭