When someone gets more successful than you, or has some blessing that you don’t have, you could be jealous, or you could be happy for them. Learn to be happy for them, because otherwise everyday you will have a moment of suffering, since there will always be someone who gets something you don’t have, and you will never have enough. Conversely, the happier you are for other people, the happier they will be for you when you’re successful, and the more they will directly contribute to your success. As a result you will have more abundance, and you will also feel like you have enough because you aren’t negatively comparing yourself to what other people have. Instead of competing and playing zero sum games with the people in your life, you are contributing to their and your own flourishing, and to more abundance more generally since generosity of spirit is contagious.