You'll notice those who are sidelined are sour they missed out. What do they do instead? They start pushing their own narratives and building their own sh*t which is actually sh*t. Look at coins in crypto, if one person misses out, they create a derivative or something similar to it. They simply cannot stand they missed out. In my four years of crypto, there's many things I've missed, but never have I wanted to replicate it. I still can't fathom my head around people who do this, but it happens, regularly. Avoid these people at all costs, simple.